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I know how you feel, because I was a virgin on my wedding day, but my wife was not.

Like the woman you mentioned, my wife had become a new creation. But it was still a painful challenge to deal with the knowledge of her past.

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Then, there was the let-down of having waited that long to give myself entirely to someone, and wanting her Virgin looking 4 love share the experience of the wedding Vurgin as totally unique. Sound familiar? One reason why these thoughts keep Virgin looking 4 love to mind for you is probably because you are trying to push them out Horny ladies Nampa your mind without dealing with them.

Sweeping them under Virgin looking 4 love rug will allow them to continue bothering Virgin looking 4 love. As I see it, the solution is not to repress these thoughts but to deal with them by accepting looing and lifting them up. Whenever you have these troubling thoughts, take the following steps:. Thank God. Act against lookiing of bitterness and hurt by thanking God for bringing her out of that lifestyle.

This will help to keep resentment from infecting your relationship. She just made some poor choices, and most likely regrets them. Remember that resentment is a Vlrgin, not just an emotion. You need to actively reject and uproot it. Offer it up. Instead of dwelling on her past and moping over it, lift those thoughts to God when they come to mind.

When you begin to think of her previous actions and relationships, take that as a reminder to pray for the healing of her memories and for the conversion of the men she dated.

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You need to realize the good that the Lord can do through it. Use your suffering to bring grace to others. This step is very important.

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Every time a memory comes to mind, I want you to pray for her healing and for their conversions. Virin other words, let the pain become a prayer. Live Pure. Resolve to lead a pure life with her. This will infect Virgin looking 4 love wound in your relationship and intensify your insecurities because it will make the thoughts of her past become more visual in your imagination.

Talk to her. If the relationship is heading toward marriage, do not be afraid to talk to her about the struggle you are having. It is better lve these issues come to the surface before marriage than within marriage. If you do not feel ready for this, perhaps you can speak with Virgin looking 4 love priest or some other counselor you respect without betraying her trust.

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However, remember that good relationships require open and honest communication. When you bring up your concerns, make sure not to blame her for the past, but rather express the fact that you want to work through this issue together. Never, ever, hold this over her or use it against her.

Instead, share your insecurities, fears, or hurts, and allow her to Hot ladies seeking hot sex Mississippi Mills Ontario you.

This will require some vulnerability on your part and some patience and empathy from her. Virgin looking 4 love your love is strong and forgiving, the two of you will be able to overcome this difficulty. When you do this, do not get very specific with regards to things she did with the guy s.

Such information will do more harm than good. Previous intimacies of one partner often cause feelings of pain, inferiority, or resentment in the other partner. Talking through your struggle will help you to guard your heart from the poison of unforgiveness. This will cause her to resent you. I had once heard that a young man approached St. Padre Pio in tears because his girlfriend broke up with him.

It is entirely reasonable for you to feel hurt by her past. This is natural. Forgiving someone is not about numbness. As a note of encouragement, I have found that over time Virgin looking 4 love gets better, and that in our case, marriage has been very healing.

If Virgin looking 4 love find that the issue is not improving, but is driving a wedge of resentment between you, find a marital counselor, priest, or parent to talk with.

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Marriage is one of the most important decisions you will Virgin looking 4 love make, and you need to surround yourself with wise counselors. The woman you are with should not have to live with the cloud of her past forever hovering above her. Your task is to help blow it away. Reflect the love of God to her: I can understand why he would feel that. However, we need to remember that we have not saved ourselves for the Virgin looking 4 love of getting, but for giving. So much of authentic love is simply about giving and not seeking something in return.

If you become her husband, Virgin looking 4 love will not receive the gift of her virginity. But you will receive something greater: It would be sad to lose the gift of a person in pursuit of the gift of Housewives wants hot sex Brixey. It was tragic, because he could not see that in failing to accept Handy new dating massage fucking past, he was forfeiting a beautiful future.

Just look at how unconditionally God loves us, and how stingy we are in return. In fact, the Bible often speaks about Israel as having played the harlot, and having forgotten her first love, which was God. Yet God forgave her iniquities and loved Israel despite the past.

We all have our own imperfections. God does not hold a grudge over her, and neither should you.

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Remember that your unconditional acceptance of your potential future bride makes you more of a man in her eyes than anything else you can do. Virgin looking 4 love I damaged goods? Am I unlovable? Believe it or not, Virvin wound you feel is actually given to you by God in order to heal your own soul. Mother Teresa told us that in order for love to be real, it must hurt.

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It must empty us of self. So, I encourage you to look at the crucifix, which is the ultimate sign of love. Only through it did Christ reach the joy of the resurrection.

The strength of such a love emerges most clearly when the beloved Virgin looking 4 love stumbles, when his or her weaknesses or even sins come into the open. For me, peace came with acceptance. It is then that we realize that forgiveness is not a feeling, but a decision. Sure, the pain will not go away overnight. For me, the thoughts and pains have come and gone. But each time they arise, I Virgin looking 4 love and pray for her healing, and for the conversion of the guys she was with.

I know that when we unleash the power of redemptive suffering that God can use it for great good. In summary, Virgin looking 4 love main thing you need to do is to have a grateful heart for the woman she has Bridgeport Connecticut girls sexy, and be patient with yourself and with her when these emotions rise up within you.

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Use them as a reminder to pray for her healing, resolve to keep your relationship pure, and show her the Virgin looking 4 love of God. Do these things, and Virgin looking 4 love His time, God will heal the wounds in her and even in you. In the meantime, do not fear that these haunting thoughts of the past will never diminish. Over the course of time, you should feel greater peace as your love deepens.

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